I don't know where I found
The Secret Remedy Book (Cates 2003), but here comes a Precious Alert ... it's
so sweet.
A tall girl named Lolly, who looks like she's about 10 years old (and a lot, incidentally, like a very sweet girl I know of the same age named Madeleine), gets to stay with her quirky Auntie Zep for a whole month. No Mom. No Dad. A whole month.
You guessed it ... she gets a little bit sad when her parents drive away, and then she gets a lot sad, and then she has herself a nice, big, head-in-hands kind of cry.
Gosh, I can relate. First, my friend Madeleine is, right now, at this moment, at her very first away camp. I'm proud of her.
Second, oh, who hasn't felt the ouch of loneliness? The kind of loneliness that nothing can fix other than a good head-in-hands kind of cry?
But not to worry. Auntie Zep, with her reading glasses, overalls, and pink headband is not the kind of aunt to be daunted by a crying 10 year old. She knows just what to do. (Wouldn't it be nice if we all had an Auntie Zep?)
After a great deal of rummaging around in a old trunk in the attic (a trunk that contains sepia-colored photographs, bundles of love letters, foreign coins, dried flowers, a teddy bear, squares of lace, antique jewelry, a tea cup ... oh, such treasures), Lolly and Auntie Zep unearth The Secret Remedy Book.
Because I can't resist, I'll share here the remedies to Lolly's heartache. They unfold slowly in the text, and the reader experiences their discovery with Lolly, one sweet remedy at a time. Here they are:
1. Drink one glass of apple juice. You must drink it so carefully that you can almost taste the very apple tree that made the apples that made the juice.
2. Plant a seed in good earth. You must do something sneaky to keep the seed safe.
3. Take a walk as far as you can. You must see something that you have never noticed before.
4. Feed a wild thing. You must make a solemn promise that you will always do everything you can to protect it from hunger and harm.
5. Write a cheerful letter to some dear soul. You must put something unexpected in the envelope.
6. Read in peace and quiet from a favorite book. You must find one special part of the book that is so wonderful that you feel like reading it again and again.
7. Dream of doing great things. You must think of one small, great thing you can do tomorrow.
See? Precious Alert.
The high school relevance piece is not difficult. Imagine a teacher who understands that some of our kids come to us having had life beat the stuffing out of them. They haven't had a head-in-hands cry in so long, they forgot what it feels like to
feel. Or, they had a head-in-hands cry just that morning when someone said something unkind. Or, life hasn't been so tough yet ... but loneliness is waiting for them in a dorm room in the fall.
So, I think I might begin by asking students to journal about a time when they felt lonely. And then we'd read about Lolly. And then I would ask kids -- and, gosh, this could be powerful -- to craft their own seven remedies. Before beginning, we'd look at the characteristics of Auntie Zep's remedies (i.e., they are personal, they respect nature, they encourage introspection, they also look outward, they are tactile). Although I would not ask students to come up with remedies that mirror the author's values, I would encourage them to imagine remedies that embody
their values. For some students, that would mean exploring and discovering what their values
are. Mmmm, refreshing idea -- like a nice, long drink of cold apple juice.
Imagine that ... a roomful of high school kids exploring what kinds of healthy behaviors they could use to deal with the pain they experience.
So, instructional classroom implications? In a literature class, a connection to a text like
Wuthering Heights, perhaps, in which the characters deal with pain with
anti-remedies ... and the consequences that ensue. Or, in European history or politics, a look at Rousseau's concept of natural man and his directive to "Know thyself." Or, in psychology, the connection between a healthy environment and a healthy emotional life.
Lots of options from Auntie Zep, to be sure. I'm going to get going on my own list of seven remedies. Number one?
Wear slippers with sheep on them.